May 14, 2011

What is a good dog?

"A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker. A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker."

 

  

"All things appear and disappear because of the concurrence of causes and conditions. Nothing ever exists entirely alone; everything is in relation to everything else."

 

  ~The B




 

May 11, 2011

Secret of Health is not to mourn or worry but to live in the present

"The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly."

 

  ~The B

May 09, 2011

Chaos is inherent, strive with diligence

Chaos is inherent in all compounded things. Strive on with diligence."

 

  ~The B

May 07, 2011

Sift speech through a sieve

"The wise ones fashioned speech with their thought, sifting it as grain is sifted through a sieve."

 

  ~The B


May 05, 2011

Fill your mind with compassion.

"Fill your mind with compassion."

 

  ~The B


April 30, 2011

Take more rest stops

Turning 50 does not mean you have to give up life in the fast lane... you just have to take more rest stops...

Tyler Moore

April 28, 2011

Live purely. Shine

"Meditate. Live purely. Be quiet. Do your work with mastery. Like the moon, come out from behind the clouds! Shine."

 

  ~The B


See and Do


I hear and I forget.

I see and I remember.

I do and I understand.

CONFUCIUS

Tyler Moore

April 27, 2011

Unity of life

"He who experiences the unity of life sees his own Self in all beings, and all beings in his own Self, and looks on everything with an impartial eye."

 

  ~The B

April 26, 2011

Infinite possibilities in each moment

"We have more possibilities available in each moment than we realize."

 

  ~Thich Nhat Hanh 

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April 25, 2011

Smile to your sorry...Promise myself to enjoy every minute of life

"Suffering is not enough. Life is both dreadful and wonderful...How can I smile when I am filled with so much sorrow? It is natural--you need to smile to your sorrow because you are more than your sorrow."


"I promise myself that I will enjoy every minute of the day that is given me to live."

 

  ~Thich Nhat Hanh 

Miracle to walk on this earth

"The true miracle is not walking on water or walking in air, but simply walking on this earth."

 

  ~Thich Nhat Hanh 


April 21, 2011

“ I don't dwell on that which I can't change”

" I don't dwell on that which I can't change,"

Larry Flynt, paralyzed from the waist down In a wheel chair for life

Now some Flynt humor:  on the topic of sex in later years:  "Even if you can't cut the mustard, you can lick the jar."  Flynt was the founder of HUSTLER magazine




April 20, 2011

Into your hands I commit my spirit... Jesus


Luke 23:46 
46Jesus called out with a loud voice, "Father, into your hands I commit my spirit." When he had said this, he breathed his last.



April 19, 2011

Breathing in I calm body and mind

"Breathing in, I calm body and mind. Breathing out, I smile. Dwelling
in the present moment I know this is the only moment."

  ~Thich Nhat Hanh

April 16, 2011

There is always Hope. Dr Yetz

"Hope is important because it can make the present moment less difficult to bear. If we believe that tomorrow will be better, we can bear a hardship today."

 

  ~Thich Nhan


 

April 14, 2011

Waking up this morning, I smile

"Waking up this morning, I smile. Twenty-four brand new hours are before me. I vow to live fully in each moment and to look at all beings with eyes of compassion."

 

  ~Thich Nhat Hanh 



April 12, 2011

Letting go of suffering

"People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar."

 

  ~Thich Nhat Hanh

April 11, 2011

One who makes you suffering is suffering deeply himself

"When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending."

 

  ~Thich Nhat Hanh 

 

April 10, 2011

Your smile can be your joy


Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy."

 

  ~Thich Nhat Hanh 



 

April 09, 2011

Nothing wasted


Nothing Wasted

TODAY'S SCRIPTURE

"After everyone was full, Jesus told His disciples, "Now gather the leftovers, so that nothing is wasted"
(John 6:12, NLT).
Joel Osteen
 


April 07, 2011

When we see the truth of life, death, out thoughts become free of emotions.

"Most of us aren't willing to face the reality of impermanence and death. That's because we forget that our lives are transitory,
that we quarrel with each other, as if we are going to live for ever.
But, if we face the fact of death, our quarrels will come to an end.
We will then realize the folly of fighting when we ourselves are doomed to die. Excited by emotions our thought being clouded, we cannot see the truth about life. When we see the truth, however, our thoughts become free of emotions."

 

  ~The B

April 06, 2011

Everything we experience begins with thought

"Everything we experience begins with thought,
Our words and deeds spring from thought,
If we speak or act with evil thoughts, Famous Buddha Quotes
unpleasant circumstances and experiences inevitably will result,
Wherever we go, we create bad karma because we carry bad thoughts. We cannot shake off this suffering as long as we are tied to our evil thoughts. Buddhist Quote Dhammapada
This is very much like the wheel of a cart that follows the hooves of an ox,
The animal is bound to this heavy load with ever step it takes
."

 

  ~The B

April 04, 2011

Family Law Partnerships: Mezzullo on FLPs: Estate Planning

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Love you Bro,

T

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and then with all your heart give yourself to it."

 

  ~The B

April 01, 2011

Keep the body in good health is a duty...

"To keep the body in good health is a duty... otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear."

B

FIND REST




Tyler Moore



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TODAY’S SCRIPTURE

“Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls”
(Matthew 11:29, NIV)

TODAY’S WORD from Joel and Victoria

Sometimes the day-to-day pressures of life can cause unnecessary stress. In fact, many people lose sleep worrying about things or people in their lives. But God doesn’t want us to live stressed out and overwhelmed. He wants us to live a life of rest and peace.

When Jesus walked on this earth, He took time for Himself. He got away from the crowds. He spent time with the Father. That’s how He found rest. He was gentle and humble in heart. Do you ever notice that when you are stressed out or worrying about something, you’re less tolerant of others? You’re more likely to say something you don’t really mean. Today, God wants you to cast your cares on Him and live with a gentle and humble attitude. When you release your burdens and follow the example of Jesus, you will find rest for your soul. You will be rejuvenated and refreshed! You will find peace in your heart, and you will move forward in the abundant life God has for you!

A PRAYER FOR TODAY

Heavenly Father, today I choose to cast my cares on You. Teach me, Holy Spirit, to have a gentle and humble attitude. Help me find rest for my soul so that I can love others the way You love me. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

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March 30, 2011

Unguarded thoughts are your worst enemy

 Your worst enemy cannot harm you as much as your own unguarded thoughts."
 

~The B


Only: Suffering and the End of Suffering

I teach one thing and one only: 
that is, suffering and the end of suffering."
 

~The B

March 28, 2011

Meditation brings wisdom

 Meditation brings wisdom; lack of meditation leaves ignorance. Know well what leads you forward and what hold you back, and choose the path that leads to wisdom."
 

~The B


March 24, 2011

Faith is the greatest companion

On a long journey of human life, faith is the best of companions; it is the best refreshment on the journey; and it is the greatest property."
 

~The B

March 23, 2011

...and your flesh shall be a great poem **


 
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- by Walt Whitman
 
Love the earth and sun and the animals,
 despise riches, give alms to everyone that asks,
stand up for the stupid and crazy,
devote your income and labor to others,
hate tyrants, argue not concerning God,
have patience and indulgence toward the people,
take off your hat to nothing known or unknown,
or to any man or number of men,
go freely with powerful uneducated persons,
and with the young, and with the mothers or families,
re-examine all you have been told in school or church or in any book,
and dismiss whatever insults your own soul;
and your very flesh shall be a great poem....
 
(preface to "Leaves of Grass")


March 16, 2011

Happiness comes from within

 Human happiness and human satisfaction must ultimately come from within oneself. It is wrong to expect some final satisfaction to come from money or from a computer.M Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment."
 

~His Holiness the Dalai Lama

March 15, 2011

Everything springs only from our self

When you think everything is someone else´s fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realize that everything springs only from yourself, you will learn both peace and joy. Pride leads to violence and evil. The truly good gaze upon everything with love and understanding."
 

~His Holiness the Dalai Lama

March 12, 2011

3000 thoughts per day

Man has 3,000 thoughts per day. Buick.

If you must think, be aware...make each thought worthwhile.

TYLER MOORE

March 09, 2011

True Purpose of religion

The purpose of all the major religious traditions is not to construct big temples on the outside, but to create temples of goodness and compassion inside, in our hearts."
 

~His Holiness the Dalai Lama


March 08, 2011

Moore's Law

Moore's Law, named after the Intel co-founder Gordon Moore, who in 1965 predicted that the density of transistors on integrated circuits would double every 18 months or so. Physics, along with ingenuity and investment, made that forecast of performance-doubling every year and a half accurate so far.
 

T

Meditate on the Goodness of God today

Handpicked by God

TODAY'S SCRIPTURE

"[In His love] He chose us [actually picked us out for Himself as His own] in Christ, before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy..."
(Ephesians 1:4 AMP)

TODAY'S WORD from Joel and Victoria

Before you were ever born, before the very foundation of the earth, God knew you, planned for you and chose you! He approved you and called you His own. You may have been overlooked by people in your life; maybe you were passed up for a job or overlooked by someone whose opinion you valued. But remember, God won't ever overlook you! In fact, He handpicked you. He chose you to be holy, or set apart, for Himself.
Meditate on this truth today: You are God's most valued possession. You are special. You are the apple of His eye. He knows everything about you; He even knows the number of hairs you have on your head. He has given you the gifts and abilities that you have for a purpose. You carry great value and significance. Don't ever lose sight of the treasure He's placed within you.
Remember, you are handpicked by God. Meditate on His goodness today knowing that nothing can change His love for you!

A PRAYER FOR TODAY

Heavenly Father, thank You for loving me today. Help me to understand Your love so that I can extend that love to those around me. Let me see others as valuable the way You see me. In Jesus' Name. Amen.
— Joel & Victoria Osteen
 


March 07, 2011

Take captive every thought

"...take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ"
(2 Corinthians 10:5, NIV)

TODAY'S WORD 

Everyone has days when they feel like life is out of control. This usually happens when we allow our circumstances to dictate our thoughts and attitudes. You might say, "Well, Joel, the economy is wreaking havoc on my business." Or "This relationship is just too far gone." But I say, today is the day to take your life back! You can take your life back by choosing to take your thoughts back. Even though we live in this natural realm, as believers, we are not limited by this natural realm. We can tap into God's power by making every thought line up with the Word of God. Don't allow your circumstances to control you; instead, meditate on His Word and let His truth set you free!
Today, as you take captive every thought and boldly declare His promises over your life, you are setting yourself up for victory. You are positioning yourself to partake of His blessing. You are taking your life back, and you will live the destiny He has prepared for you!

A PRAYER FOR TODAY

Heavenly Father, thank You for empowering me to live in victory today. I choose to take my life back by taking captive every thought and submitting it to You. Help me live a life that is pleasing to You, Jesus, today and every day. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
— Joel & Victoria Osteen
 


True compassion does not change

A truly compassionate attitude toward others does not change even if they behave negatively or hurt you."
 

~His Holiness the Dalai Lama

March 03, 2011

I have come so that you can have life abundantly

Thriving Every Day

TODAY'S SCRIPTURE

"...I came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in abundance (to the full, till it overflows)"
(John 10:10, AMP)

TODAY'S WORD from Joel and Victoria

God doesn't want you to live with a "barely-get-by" attitude. He has new seasons of increase in front of you. He wants you to thrive, to live an abundant, overflowing life!
Sometimes when things seem difficult, it's easy to slip into "survival mode." When times get tough, it's tempting to just "hunker down" and settle where we are. If you're not careful, you'll develop a survival mentality that will keep you from growing and releasing your faith. You'll be happy just to "break even." But as God's children, we're not supposed to just break even; we're supposed to break through to a new level! We're supposed to believe for more of God's favor, increase and promotion no matter what is happening in the world around us.
Make up your mind today that no matter how difficult things seem, you are going to thrive every day! Take hold of God's promises and declare that you are rising higher. As you continue to expect His favor and increase, you'll see His hand of blessing in your life, and you will thrive and live in victory all the days of your life.

A PRAYER FOR TODAY

Father in heaven, thank You for giving me life. I choose today to agree with Your Word which says I can thrive and enjoy my life to the full. Help me see Your hand at work more and more each day. I bless You and give You praise. In Jesus' Name. Amen.
— Joel & Victoria Osteen
 

March 02, 2011

Self-discipline to prevent advent of negative emotion

Self-discipline, although difficult, and not always easy while combating
negative emotions, should be a defensive measure.  At least we will be able to prevent the advent of negative conduct dominated by negative emotion.  That is 'shila', or moral ethics.  Once we develop this by familiarizing ourselves with it, along with mindfulness and conscientiousness, eventually that pattern and way of life will become a part of our own life."
 

 Dalai Lama

February 24, 2011

Nothing to be called life, nothing death

 All buddhas preach emptiness. Why? Because they wish to crush the concrete ideas of the students. If a student even clings to an idea of emptiness, he betrays all buddhas. One clings to life although there is nothing to be called life; another clings to death although there is nothing to be called death. In reality there is nothing to be born, Consequently there is nothing to perish."
 

~Bodhidharma

February 20, 2011

Life has no form

This one life has no form and is empty by nature. If you become attached to any form, you should reject it. If you see an ego, a soul, a birth or a death, reject them all."
 

~Bodhidharma



 

February 19, 2011

Entrepreneurs are The Optimist

A true entrepreneur does not have the word "failure" in his lexicon. Maybe a venture doesn't work out. But no failure.

Sam Zell
With highly contrarian ethos, buys real estate in highly distressed markets.

Forbes February 2011

TYLER MOORE

February 18, 2011

I have come that they may have life more abundantly.

John 10:10 (New King James Version) 
10 The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly. 
  
  
Your life here is precious, but your life to come will be even better. So trust in God's promises and cling to theabundant life that Christ offers you!

 


February 17, 2011

Wisdom = observing delusions

When you observe your delusions, you will know that they are baseless and not dependable. In this way you can cut confusion and doubt. This is what I call wisdom."
 

~Bodhidharma

February 13, 2011

B1

The best vitamin for a Christian is B1.


February 10, 2011

Do Not Allow Others to be in Control of Your Career and Life

Do Not Allow Others to be in Control of Your Career and Life 

By Harrison Barnes 


Several years ago, I bought a car that formerly belonged to a very heavy smoker.  By the looks of the interior, the car had been exposed to smoke for at least 8 hours a day for over a decade when I finally got it. 

My first order of business when I purchased the car was to put in a new stereo.  As I sat in the waiting room of the stereo store, I heard someone scream and then saw all of the guys installing car stereos run over to my new car.  A few moments later I discovered what the commotion was all about.  The car had been exposed to so much cigarette smoke that even the car stereo wires inside the dashboard were covered in thick nicotine goo.  Needless to say, this experience was quite embarrassing and I immediately decided I needed to clean this car as well as possible.  It was a health hazard.

For days I tried one remedy after another to attack the cigarette smell and stains on the seats, visors, and other portions of the interior.  In order to save money, I did my best to clean the car myself but it was a futile exercise. 

At some point, when nothing seemed to be working, I splashed some industrial "concentrated" bathroom air freshener I had bought deep in the heart of Detroit, all over the cloth surfaces of the car.  For reasons I have never understood, the carpets, interior door panels, and the seats never fully dried from the air cleaner incident.  The interior of the car took on a "sheen" and had a "light slime" touch. 

This was not the real problem though. The biggest problem was that I had failed to dilute the air freshener with water as recommended on the bottle (1 part air freshener to 100 parts water).

What a mistake. 

After at least a week trying to clean my car on my own—and spending countless quarters in self-serve car washes, an excess of $200 on renting a steam cleaner from the grocery store and on exotic car soaps and air fresheners, I finally decided to take the car to a car wash and pay $150 to get the car professionally detailed.

I sat watching on a bench while a young guy did all of the work on the car.  He was in his early 20s and had one of those rocker looks.  He had long black hair, was medium height and was extremely thin and pale.  He worked on the car for at least six hours and was extremely detail oriented and a very hard worker.  At the time, I had an asphalt business and was paying people around $20-an hour.  I could not believe the enthusiasm with which he was working.  I thought immediately about hiring him.

"How much are you making here?" I asked him.

"Oh, I make below minimum wage—but I get paid in cash.  I have a good boss, though, and he has promised me that if I do a good job over the summer here he will give me a raise by winter."

"How long have you worked here?" I asked.

"Two years," he told me.

At the time the minimum wage was around $5.00 an hour.  I was a little taken back.  For as hard as he was working, he clearly deserved more money.

"Wow.  I have an asphalt business and I could pay you $20 an hour," I told him.  I then discussed the work.

"No, that's a bad idea," he said.  "My boss would be very angry with me—the last thing I would want to do would be to upset him."

One of the most significant differences between people in the world is this: Some people feel that they control the events around them and others feel they are controlled by events.  In the case of the guy in the car wash, he clearly did not feel in control over his life—he was giving his life and work to someone who was grossly underpaying him and with little rhyme or reason.

About five years later, I went by the car wash during the day and saw he was still detailing cars there.  I'm assuming that he was still afraid of upsetting his boss.

An important and crucial decision you need to make for your life is whether you choose to be controlled by events and others—or the other way around.  Nothing is more empowering than deciding you want to be in control.  You control your environment and everything that happens to you.  There are no mysterious forces at work that can ever compete with your desire for a better life or career. 

Employers, social circles, and other groups often thrive on the illusion that they—and not you—are in control of your future.  This is something that is necessary for all groups to survive—but it is a complete fallacy.  In reality, you are always in control and have always been in control.

I live across the street from at least 2 drug and alcohol rehabilitation centers in Malibu.  These rehabilitation centers are nothing more than ocean view houses staffed with a cook, a few therapists who come and go, someone who sits in the house watching television overnight for $12/hour in case there are any problems, cleaning staff, and some fitness equipment.  Yoga instructors and personal trainers also stop by on a daily basis.  I found out recently that these centers charge between $50,000 and $75,000 a month for people to visit them and receive treatment.  Most people are urged to stay more than one month.

I agree that substance abuse is a serious problem and needs to be treated—but I have heard from my own massage therapist (who works there) and at least a few others that these organizations thrive on making many people feel that they lack control over their own lives—the organization steps in and profits by people's belief that they lack control.  For example, at one center, months after many people leave, they are encouraged to spend tens of thousands of dollars a month to have someone live with them and watch them 24 hours a day.

Many people when they start looking for a job, feel at the mercy of employers and as if employers are in control.  This thought process is based on a self esteem issue that I feel gives employers more control over their future than they deserve.  I have known people who have sat around for years waiting for a job to appear and rarely applying to jobs.  This makes no sense.  If you need a job, you need to realize that no one is more in control of finding you a job than you are.

You can apply to jobs in different states (or countries).  You can strengthen your resume every spare second you get.  You can apply to jobs above your skill level—and below your skill level.  You can work the phones and call people.  You can resubmit your resume for jobs again and again.  You can network every chance you get.  You can work on your fitness so you look better for interviews.

All that any of these suggestions above represent is you taking control.  I could fill over 1,000 pages of one-line suggestions of how you can take control.  You need to take control and not the other way around.

Believing that others are in control of our lives may permeate every area of our life.   Take healthcare for example.  There are chiropractors, acupuncturists, herbalists, medical doctors, osteopaths, and many, many more.  All of these people function and make their living, in part, by fostering the idea that we lack control.

Over a decade ago, I used to chew tobacco. One day during a physical my doctor suggested I quit.  He prescribed some nicotine gum and then made me come back every 30 days for a consultation and to get a new prescription.  I did this for six months and then one day I said to myself: "This is stupid.  All I need to do is stop—there is no reason to pay this guy $90 a month and buy this stupid gum.  All I need to do is stop.  I am in control."

I stopped in one day and it was painless.

If you ever go see a chiropractor, they will generally recommend a course of treatment for years—even in cases where you no longer need it.  Dentists recommend a cleaning every six months.  Many doctors will operate on your heart instead of spending time with you lecturing you about healthy living (where this might be more effective).  I know someone who had had at least 5 open-heart surgeries and whose doctor has never recommended any change in their diet.

Many lawyers are the same way.  They foster a belief that we lack control over the outcomes and results we get—and they thrive on this. 

If you do not take control, your career and life will always fit into someone else's plan for you.  Which is better-someone else's plan, or your own?  You need to realize that the second you take control and decide what you are going to do for yourself, everything will change—and it will change in an instant.

In most offices and workplaces, the impression is given to the staff that their future is at the mercy of supervisors, management, and others. To some extent this is true; however, it is never completely true.  Do you even know how marketable you are? If you are not that marketable, do you know what you need to do to take control of your career and to be more marketable?

You need to understand that it is the best interest of people "in power" to foster the illusion for you that they are in control and not you.  You need to assume control over your career and life.

Related posts:

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  3. Ferraris Crashing Into Poles and the Importance of Focus in Your Life and Career



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